Trecia Lewis, LCSW

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How to Use Affirmations to Overcome Fear

If you begin to use affirmations in your life, you'll unleash a power that can eliminate the control fear has over you. You can use affirmations to get you through the tough times and gain self-confidence.

Why You Have Fears

Throughout life, many situations will cause fear, but fear isn't always bad! It can actually play an important role in your life.

Fear can instantly get your heart pumping faster and give you the adrenalin rush needed to get you away from a threatening situation. If someone were to chase you down the street, your fear could push you to run faster or think on your feet. In fact, fear may be necessary to drive you to safety. 

Unfortunately, fear also comes at times when you're in no danger at all. That's when fear becomes destructive. These types of fears can hinder your daily lifestyle and make you act in ways that you wish you didn't.

These are the fears to overcome. Irrational fears, like the fear of heights or a fear of speaking in public, could cause you to avoid situations that could provide tremendous value in your life. Instead of avoiding fearful situations, learn to conquer your fears and live your life to the fullest. 

How Affirmations Can Help

Affirmations can help you overcome your fears by keeping your focus on being positive and in the present moment. Affirmations are short, positive statements that are written in the present tense. They describe how you want to feel as if you already experience those empowering emotions. 

You can find affirmations that pertain to your specific fear, or you can write your own. For example, if you fear elevators, you can recite to yourself: "I feel calm and relaxed right now." Repeat this phrase along with other affirmations next time you ride in an elevator. Find the courage within yourself to face the fearful situation. 

The Importance of Believing in Yourself 

Affirmations only provide power for you if you bring to them a determination to get over your fears. Repeated on a daily basis, affirmations reprogram your mind to believe and act differently in the stressful situations you're seeking to overcome. But you must be consistent and keep an open mind for them to work for you.

People get over their fears every day. You can find the courage and strength within yourself to finally declare that you're free from fear! Even if affirmations seem kind of silly at first, stick with it. They might not make you feel courageous immediately, but give it some time. Keep repeating them and you will see positive results.

Affirmations for Any Fear

You can find affirmations for almost any fear or negative emotion. But it may be more effective to write your own. Simply imagine yourself in the situation, responding perfectly and feeling peaceful inside. Write a positive, present tense statement, in the first person, describing what you see in your mind's eye. 

Create a few affirmations and repeat them to yourself over and over again. Repeat this exercise every day, and soon you'll begin to notice yourself feeling differently about the situation. 

Once you've worked through one fear with affirmations, you'll possess a tool that can conquer any fear that you have. 

Begin harnessing the power of affirmations today! Start small and allow the positive results to motivate you to use them more and more in the future.

10 Affirmations from Scriptures to Help you Today

  1. The Lord is my Shepherd. I lack no good thing. Psalm 23:1

  2. The Lord is right here with me, an ever present help in time of need. Psalm 46:1 

  3. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13

  4. God has filled my life with good things. I can trust Him to satisfy me. Psalm 103:1-5

  5. The Lord is my light. As dark as this world may seem, I do not have to walk in darkness. Psalm 27:1

  6. I am precious to God and He will take care of me. Matthew 6:25-44

  7. I am not destined for stumbling or destruction. I have a noble purpose and a hope. I Peter 2:8-9

  8. The Lord is my rock and refuge. He will be a safe place for me today. Psalm 18:1

  9. I am equipped for every good deed and lavished with every grace. 2 Corinthians 9:8

  10. The Lord is coming. He will save me so I need not be anxious or afraid. Isaiah 35:4